Wedding Planning·
Wedding Invitation Wording: 10 Examples for Every Kind of Couple
Getting the wording right is one of those things that sounds simple until you're actually staring at a blank screen. Here are ten examples — formal, relaxed, and everything in between — that you can copy, adapt, and make your own.
Why the wording matters
Your invitation sets the tone before the big day arrives. Guests read it and immediately form a feeling — is this a black-tie affair or a barefoot celebration in a barn? The right words do that work quietly, without having to spell it out.
1. Classic and formal
Mr and Mrs James Hartley
request the pleasure of your company
at the marriage of their daughter
Emma Charlotte
to
Oliver George Weston
Saturday, the twentieth of September 2026
at two o'clock in the afternoon
St Mary's Church, Burford
2. Relaxed and modern
Emma & Oliver are getting married!
Join us on Saturday 20 September 2026
at 2pm · St Mary's Church, Burford
Followed by a party at The Old Barn, Witney
Kindly RSVP by 1 August
3. Outdoor or garden wedding
Under the open sky and surrounded by people we love,
we're getting married.
Emma & Oliver · 20 September 2026
The Walled Garden, Blenheim · 3pm onwards
Wear something you can dance in.
4. Intimate ceremony, big celebration
We're keeping the ceremony small and the party big.
Emma and Oliver
are married — come celebrate with us
Saturday 20 September · The Old Barn, Witney · 7pm
No gifts, just you.
5. Evening-only guests
Emma & Oliver
would love you to join their evening celebration
Saturday 20 September 2026
from 7 o'clock
The Old Barn, Witney OX29
Drinks, dancing, and a late buffet.
6. Destination wedding
We're getting married in Tuscany.
Emma & Oliver · Villa Cicolina, Montisi · 12 June 2027
If you can make it, we'd love nothing more.
Detailed travel information follows.
7. Two-part weekend
It's a whole weekend.
Friday 19 September: welcome drinks at The Feathers, Woodstock · 7pm
Saturday 20 September: ceremony at St Mary's · 2pm · party until late
Sunday 21 September: brunch in the garden · 10am
Stay as long as you can.
8. Couples hosting themselves
Together with their families,
Emma Charlotte Hartley
and Oliver George Weston
welcome you to their wedding
Saturday 20 September 2026 · 2pm
St Mary's Church, Burford
and afterwards at The Old Barn, Witney
9. Hen-do or pre-wedding party
Before the big day, we're celebrating Emma.
Join us for her hen weekend
Friday–Sunday · 4–6 July 2026
The Cotswolds · Hosted by the bridesmaids
RSVP to Sophie by 1 June.
10. Digital invitation wording
For a cinematic digital invitation you can send from your phone, less is more. Guests tap a link — the design does the heavy lifting. A good starting point:
Emma & Oliver are getting married
20 September 2026 · Burford, Oxfordshire
Tap to RSVP and see all the details.
Tips for adapting these
1. British English: 'favour' not 'favor', 'colour' not 'color'. Small but they matter.
2. Consistency: pick one tone and keep it. Formal opening lines next to casual sign-offs jar.
3. The RSVP line: always include a deadline and a method. 'Kindly reply by 1 August at emma-rsvp.ourguestbook.co.uk' is clear.
4. Less is more: if it takes more than thirty seconds to read, it's too long.
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